Advice on Finding a Mentor

Ronica,

Who can I look to for advice about my future plans and choices? My parents are very supportive, but know little about my career path.

~Needing Direction

Needing Direction,

Family can be a great place to get support, but often not the place to get the direction and concrete advice you need to accomplish your goals. Finding mentors are a crucial part of your college experience, and one of the few things that you are solely responsible for obtaining. Without the willingness to seek guidance from those with experience in your field of interest, you will miss out on an essential part of your growth.

Now that we are right in the middle of summer, this is a great time to reach out to former professors from the past year. Tell them what you are doing for the summer and what you are scheduled to take in the fall. Professors have a wealth of knowledge, because most are still connected to the industry they teach. Many have worked in the field and teach because they were so successful. It is a rare student who takes the time to stay in touch with a professor, so most will be pleased to hear from you. There is nothing more flattering than when someone asks for your advice. However, if you wait too long or only contact a professor when you need a recommendation letter, their genuine desire to help you will wane. By building up a relationship slowly and at a time when you do not have to ask them for anything, you will develop a stronger bond, get better advice and when you finally do need them, they will help you more readily.

Apply this advice to your current boss and coworkers at your internship by keeping in touch through the upcoming academic year. Find reasons to contact them that are appropriate. By updating them on accomplishments in your life and asking for advice when faced with new situations, you show that your commitment was more than for the summer.

As you grow, these mentors will not only serve as supporters and advisors, but many will become friends. When you ask those with the experience and knowledge to help you reach your goals, you demonstrate your maturity and your ability to handle the next level of your life.

I hope this advice helps you to find great mentors. Have some tips I didn’t mention? Feel free to post a comment or email me at AskRonica@Gmail.com.

~Ronica

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For more info on finding career-specific mentors, check out this article from our archives.